BF/GF hanging out with the opposite sex on their own? - soompi hangout
hmmm. this is an interesting topic.
i'm definitely a protective girlfriend. as in, when we're at school or at the mall
or downtown and i see a girl staring at him, i'll do something affectionate. if
we're already holding hands, i'll kiss his cheek or something. if we aren't, i'll
rub the back of his neck. if the girl doesn't stop staring, i stare right back at her.
I'M A GIRL WHO MARKS HER TERRITORY. sounds scary but luckily, he enjoys it.
ANYWAY. i have no problem with my boyfriend hanging out with girls so long
as i know they aren't outrageously close. if they're like, casual friends, then he
can go do whatever he wants. but if i know that they're close, or if i perceive her
as a threat - outrageously pretty, same personality as me, or anything else - i'll
speak up and voice my concerns about it. jk. i just get really moody. but he knows
when i'm upset. despite how jealous i am, though, my mindset is that i'm not his
mother. it isn't my job to tell him what he can and cannot do or to restrict his
friendships just because of my insecurity. if he's smart, he won't do anything
to break my trust. and if she's smart, she'll keep her paws to herself.
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